Blackpill "Its all about looks bro"

[itsallaboutpersonality]

Most incels/blackpillers arent really doing service to the popularly held belief that 'its all about looks'. In order to claim this from own's own personal experience, one needs to at be proficient in other aspects of life. If iam rich, got a few talents to boast about and still encounter failure with foids, i can rightfully claim that its all looks. And yet, you mostly encounter posters on these sites who have pretty much nothing going for them.

Its kind of a funny thing to have have some fatbeard claim only the top 5% of chads rule the world while they put no effort into developing skills. What are your thoughts on this?

@overeitherway @ragemaxxed @AsianBossLT

 

[Bojack]

Maybe it’s all about looks idk

 

[overeitherway]

Most incels/blackpillers arent really doing service to the popularly held belief that 'its all about looks'. In order to claim this from own's own personal experience, one needs to at be proficient in other aspects of life. If iam rich, got a few talents to boast about and still encounter failure with foids, i can rightfully claim that its all looks. And yet, you mostly encounter posters on these sites who have pretty much nothing going for them.

Its kind of a funny thing to have have some fatbeard claim only the top 5% of chads rule the world while they put no effort into developing skills. What are your thoughts on this?

@overeitherway @ragemaxxed @AsianBossLT

I see what you want to say, but you have to ask the question, why don't they have anything going for them selves?, itv talks about positive and negative reinforcement a lot, some children (usually good looking, popular children etc) they constantly are given positivity for the things they do they do, but other people when we work hard, when we try doing something productive, there is no positivity, no admiration for the things for the things we do, so why would we continue? why bother? why would we even try when whenever you do you are demotivated, I remember telling my mom i'd like to do boxing classes and she just laughed at me, it was soul crushing ngl, she just sees me as weak, it's hard to follow your dreams when people look down on you, but ofc you can learn to not doubt your self but it's not easy

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

I see what you want to say, but you have to ask the question, why don't they have anything going for them selves?, itv talks about positive and negative reinforcement a lot, some children (usually good looking, popular children etc) they constantly are given positivity for the things they do they do, but other people when we work hard, when we try doing something productive, there is no positivity, no admiration for the things for the things we do, so why would we continue? why bother? why would we even try when whenever you do you are demotivated, I remember telling my mom i'd like to do boxing classes and she just laughed at me, it was soul crushing ngl, she just sees me as weak, it's hard to follow your dreams when people look down on you, but ofc you can learn to not doubt your self but it's not easy

That's the excuse which i don't buy. That'd only be true if you look out and every successful/rich man you see was chad tier. Reality paints a different picture.

 

[overeitherway]

That's the excuse which i don't buy. That'd only be true if you look out and every successful/rich man you see was chad tier. Reality paints a different picture.

well when it comes to the rich, their ease of success comes from their environment, they had opportunities that others did not, even in so called "rags to riches" stories if you look at the finer details, they had opportunities others do not

 

[overeitherway]

That's the excuse which i don't buy. That'd only be true if you look out and every successful/rich man you see was chad tier. Reality paints a different picture.

also don't get it twisted, I am not completely disagreeing with you and saying just give up on life and do nothing cause you don't get your way, but I am just giving understanding and clarity and why some people end up the way they do, we look at people's behavior but don't ask our selves why are they like that in the first place

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

well when it comes to the rich, their ease of success comes from their environment, they had opportunities that others did not, even in so called "rags to riches" stories if you look at the finer details, they had opportunities others do not

If they had just given up and believed only good looking people made it, they wouldnt have got far.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

also don't get it twisted, I am not completely disagreeing with you and saying just give up on life and do nothing cause you don't get your way, but I am just giving understanding and clarity and why some people end up the way they do, we look at people's behavior but don't ask our selves why are they like that in the first place

Life is unfair, on a fundamental level. But the response to that shouldnt be to give up. By logic, the one who has it worse should work harder, not rot.

 

[overeitherway]

If they had just given up and believed only good looking people made it, they wouldnt have got far.

they didn't have the looks, but they sure as hell had the environment, success definitely isn't solely about looks, but It can play a role, but I think it's mostly environmental and conditional, and environments and conditions that you have no control over, the country you were born in, the area you were born in, the family you were born into etc

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

they didn't have the looks, but they sure as hell had the environment, success definitely isn't solely about looks, but It can play a role, but I think it's mostly environmental and conditional, and environments and conditions that you have no control over, the country you were born in, the area you were born in, the family you were born into etc

The skills you learn, the native talents you harbor and your willpower are also equally important. Without motivation and drive, nothing is possible.

 

[overeitherway]

The skills you learn, the native talents you harbor and your willpower are also equally important. Without motivation and drive, nothing is possible.

and where do you expect that motivation and drive to come from with all the negativity

 

[Monocel]

well when it comes to the rich, their ease of success comes from their environment, they had opportunities that others did not, even in so called "rags to riches" stories if you look at the finer details, they had opportunities others do not

Yeah, most of the famous rich people such as Elon, Bezos, and Gates all had wealthy backgrounds you're born into a psuedo caste it's hard to get out of the class you come from.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

and where do you expect that motivation and drive to come from with all the negativity

Motivation comes from within. Environment/genetics matter but they only constitute like 30-40%.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

Yeah, most of the famous rich people such as Elon, Bezos, and Gates all had wealthy backgrounds you're born into a psuedo caste it's hard to get out of the class you come from.

Why do you pick hyper rich men as examples? You really dont need that much money.

 

[overeitherway]

Yeah, most of the famous rich people such as Elon, Bezos, and Gates all had wealthy backgrounds you're born into a psuedo caste it's hard to get out of the class you come from.

I jfl at bezos and elon's success story, they mention how much Elon went bankrupt multiple times and never gave up and the same with bezos but fail to mention that they both got help from their parents, Elon got about 28k to start zip2 (which is about 58k today when you account inflation) and bezos got 300k from his parents to start off Amazon, yet their still passed off as muh rags to riches billionaires, now i'm not saying they didn't build it them selves still even if they got a bit of financial aid, but lets be real most people's parents would give them that kinda money to follow their dreams, definitely cannot be applied to your average Joe

 

[overeitherway]

Why do you pick hyper rich men as examples? You really dont need that much money.

because people always bring them up to show that seemly average people no different from us can get rich, but like I said, when you look at the finer details it's not that simple

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

because people always bring them up to show that seemly average people no different from us can get rich, but like I said, when you look at the finer details it's not that simple

It's not that hard to acquire enough wealth to enjoy copes in the first world.

 

[TalesFromDaBasement]

The defeatist mindset goes hand in hand with the blackpill and serves as an excuse for failures in areas unrelated to dating, so it's bound to be popular

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

The defeatist mindset goes hand in hand with the blackpill and serves as an excuse for failures in areas unrelated to dating, so it's bound to be popular

Exactly.