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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWomen/comments/1gr23qy/how_do_i_confront_my_sister_about_her_polar
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At one end my 34 year old sister is desperate to get married, but on the other end she rejects almost every prospect we show her. a year back she even rejected a 35 year old guy who I believed had been the most appropriate partner for her. this dude she met online graciously welcomed my entire family in his house and helped us live there for a the whole week. when my parents decided booking a hotel in his city, he insisted they stay in his house and not leave. each time, he would come home he will always bring sweets and other delicacies. I initially suspected his overly kind behavior but when I saw him display this kindness towards his distant family members — helping them with their minor chores, receiving them from station, dropping them all in his car — I was convinced this men has a very great heart and will be the perfect partner for her. I wasn’t judging him in this context itself, since I believe my sister also had a great chemistry with him, but just because of his unstable job, which I just heard he has gotten out of and started his own business, my sister rejected him. she is doing almost the same with everyone, yet complain why she’s not getting married. my parents blame me for not finding prospects for my sister but when I do, I know what my sisters’ ultimate response will be.
had it been her personal choice to not get married, then I accept it but to bitch about her unmarried state then reject guys for miniscule reasons is crazy.
How to confront her about this problem without straining our relationship."
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JFL guy is extremely nice but got rejected by post-wall curry foid due to 'muh unstable job'. JFL @ hideous curryholes, the vilest race of foid in existence
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