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I had tried matrimonial websites for 2 years. I deleted my profiles now. While I was flooded with matches, unfortunately I couldn’t find any spark or attraction from my side for those men.
What a am struggling with is— most men with my level of earning, want to live with their parents, expecting almost 40 to 50% financial contribution from wife, expecting kid, requirement on no past. I am okay with all these requirement for a man I really love, but not for a random man from street.
I got marriage proposals from some very wealthy men too. Like really wealthy. I have 2 such proposals in my hand right now. They told me I don’t have to make any financial contribution. They also gave me an option to choose between work or not to work. They are pushing for an answer. While these 2 men are perfect on paper, I feel marrying with such wealth difference bring more problems in life. Also I am not feeling any spark.
There is a guy I really like. But I don’t know if that connection will workout or not. But he is the only guy I ever felt attraction for. We went out once. We are going out again tonight. He is majorly out of my league kinda guy. Very hot. Quite successful, extremely well educated. Very classy and gentlemanly.
I know I should stick to AM matches but without love, how can I marry?
Are you people getting that spark, passion, attraction in AM? Are you trying to date outside AM too? Is it working for you?
No trolling, bullying or shaming please. Give honest answer. If you marry without attraction or love, what if love never happens after marriage?
What a am struggling with is— most men with my level of earning, want to live with their parents, expecting almost 40 to 50% financial contribution from wife, expecting kid, requirement on no past. I am okay with all these requirement for a man I really love, but not for a random man from street.
I got marriage proposals from some very wealthy men too. Like really wealthy. I have 2 such proposals in my hand right now. They told me I don’t have to make any financial contribution. They also gave me an option to choose between work or not to work. They are pushing for an answer. While these 2 men are perfect on paper, I feel marrying with such wealth difference bring more problems in life. Also I am not feeling any spark.
There is a guy I really like. But I don’t know if that connection will workout or not. But he is the only guy I ever felt attraction for. We went out once. We are going out again tonight. He is majorly out of my league kinda guy. Very hot. Quite successful, extremely well educated. Very classy and gentlemanly.
I know I should stick to AM matches but without love, how can I marry?
Are you people getting that spark, passion, attraction in AM? Are you trying to date outside AM too? Is it working for you?
No trolling, bullying or shaming please. Give honest answer. If you marry without attraction or love, what if love never happens after marriage?
