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How do I become low inhibition again?

Start believing in god
 
drugs
 
It's like faking a smile when you're not in the mood. It's not really something you can do sustainably if the environment doesn't facilitate it, which it clearly doesn't for us. The only hope is that environment will one day change, ie having good social interactions.

In my experience, the longer you force it, the more trauma you endure, forcing you deeper into that high inhib box.
 
It's like faking a smile when you're not in the mood. It's not really something you can do sustainably if the environment doesn't facilitate it, which it clearly doesn't for us. The only hope is that environment will one day change, ie having good social interactions.

In my experience, the longer you force it, the more trauma you endure, forcing you deeper into that high inhib box.
Thanks for your input.

So I should just let it come naturally?
 
Thanks for your input.

So I should just let it come naturally?
Generally speaking, yes. Like if forcing low inhib was working well for you, you wouldn't be having this issue.

For the fun on of it I'll delve a little deeper. It's technically a multifaceted trait that comes down to factors like your social sensitivity, anxiety, history/disposition, introversion/social battery, social skills, environment/energy expenditure required, and social goals. By playing around with the variables in this list, you can lower your inhib:

social sensitivity - not variable, requires success
history/disposition - not variable, requires success
introversion - constant


Social anxiety - strategy/delusion can work in the short term to a very limited extent, but good enough to do small things like an approach here and there. Can also be lowered with drugs and alcohol.

Social battery - social battery can be managed by spacing out social stuff strategically. Obvious stuff.

Social skills - improving skills reduce energy required to socialise in associated areas and allow you to do stuff you otherwise wouldnt. but takes ages to develop for somewhat limited efficacy. Best to start if you're young, but worth developing regardless. Keep in mind your social skills with vary for different social activities.

Environment/energy expenditure required - being strategic in what you do to make it easier and use less social energy.

Social goals - really depends on what you're trying to do, but the general idea is if you're getting a good reward for the effort you put in, it'll make it much easier to continue, dropping inhib.


This is pretty much everything you can change. It's not bad, but none of these are great solutions. The easiest method is waiting for an external change to take place, allowing you to reach your goal without difficulty. The above can still be worth it, but the efficacy is no different from a mediocre guy trying to looksmaxx for a gf.
 
Just 2-3 short years ago I was giga low inhibition. I dont know how I turned into a abused dog so quickly.
your just supposed to fake it brah it like putting on a show dont overdo it though or youll end up saying some autistic shit
 
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