Blackpill I'm socially fucked around girls

[Avarcel]

Was at an event and there a quite attractive girl hanging around me. When I moved around, she tended to enter the little social circle I was in. I was subconsciously testing to see if she'd do it, because I assumed she wouldn't find me good looking, but I guess I was wrong.

Of course I was in my default social state of completely ignoring her and pretending she isn't there. She didn't start conversing with me, I guess she wanted me to initiate. I just can't bring myself to start talking to a girl. I couldn't think of anything, and even if I could, it's not like it would go anywhere. Idk, it just feels so stupid.

I'm pretty sure my main problem is my social skills, not my looks. But there's nothing I can do about it, because on the inside, I'm completely defeated from all the years of no interaction with girls.

 

[Slap]

You should've started the convo with this line: "Ok. I'll break the ice. Why haven't you said hi to me? Are you some type of weirdo? Do I smell that much?"

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

Sorry OP but cope. I used to think the same way whenever a foid smiled at me. Truth is foids make it obvious when they like a guy.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

You might not be hideously ugly to the point where foids give you looks of disgust. But today being a 5/10 doesnt count for shit.

 

[Avarcel]

You should've started the convo with this line: "Ok. I'll break the ice. Why haven't you said hi to me? Are you some type of weirdo? Do I smell that much?"

We had already been introduced, so I had no excuse.

Sorry OP but cope. I used to think the same way whenever a foid smiled at me. Truth is foids make it obvious when they like a guy.

That's the thing. It always comes back to this. I think you're right, but after the event, I always question it.

I always have an excuse to, like I was pretty much always facing away from her like a true autist. But the deeper I think about my life, my view aligns with what you said.

 

[Avarcel]

Sorry OP but cope. I used to think the same way whenever a foid smiled at me. Truth is foids make it obvious when they like a guy.

Meanwhile, she's forgotten I exist, as she lives on in my head rent free for the next couple months.

Come to think of it, she displayed no ioi's (other than what I mentioned), so that's it right there. I appreciate your comment, will save me lots of mental torment.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

That's the thing. It always comes back to this. I think you're right, but after the event, I always question it.

I always have an excuse to, like I was pretty much always facing away from her like a true autist. But the deeper I think about my life, my view aligns with what you said.

Ive been there. All those instances of a foid smiling at me or staring at etched into my memory. Why does this happen to us? Because as an incel with no experience, your brain registers a common social cue as some kind of IOI.

Two instances off the top of my head:

In the US, a foid cashier (good looking) smiled at me after looking at what i bought (sleeping pills and m&ms)

In the US, there was this foid (again very good looking) living in my apartment complex. Id always walk to University while she drove but everytime she saw me she'd smile.

Also other instances of creepy curry whores staring at me but those only gave me nightmares (ewww)

The only IOI you should look for is your dick in her vagina. Everything else is one gigantic cope. @ragemaxxed @Levicel @overeitherway Thoughts?

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

Come to think of it, she displayed no ioi's (other than what I mentioned), so that's it right there. I appreciate your comment, will save me lots of mental torment.

Ya thats the way to see it. Ive seen a lot of mental gymnastics by incels who've declared themselves as 'non-NT'. If only i was normal, booohooo. This is such a retarded, blue pilled take on the matter. These retards spend decades blaming themselves while good looking men continue to rake up their body counts.

 

[Levicel]

@Levicel Thoughts?

Every other reply to you in the near future is copium

Couldn't get more blackpilled than this

 

[TalesFromDaBasement]

The only IOI you should look for is your dick in her vagina. Everything else is one gigantic cope.

Unironically

 

[TalesFromDaBasement]

Was at an event

Mogs me

What kind of "event"

 

[overeitherway]

The only IOI you should look for is your dick in her vagina. Everything else is one gigantic cope. @ragemaxxed @Levicel @overeitherway Thoughts?

this. niggas be like but muh she twirled her hair and looked in my direction bro (jfl i have heard multiple dudes from forums say this about a foid)

 

[Muttcel Foid Killer]

You might not be hideously ugly to the point where foids give you looks of disgust. But today being a 5/10 doesnt count for shit.

good thing im chadrone

 

[Avarcel]

Mogs me

What kind of "event"

A neighbourhood gathering. It's really only exclusive to hobos, so getting an invite isn't much of an achievement.

 

[FemoidsGTFO]

You're probably right, many foids don't approach even when they're obviously into the guy and just give "hints" instead. You could just be overinterpreting though.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

You're probably right, many foids don't approach even when they're obviously into the guy and just give "hints" instead.

Giga cope. This isnt true today, it was true before dating apps.

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

this. niggas be like but muh she twirled her hair and looked in my direction bro (jfl i have heard multiple dudes from forums say this about a foid)

Worst part is they probably keep replaying this scenario in their heads, thinking about what they could have said or done. Then they classify themselves as nearcels (muh i was almost there bro, should have said the right words bro)

 

[overeitherway]

Worst part is they probably keep replaying this scenario in their heads, thinking about what they could have said or done. Then they classify themselves as nearcels (muh i was almost there bro, should have said the right words bro)

i've said before there's no "if only i had said the right words", there's no such thing as that, if you had the ability to get the foid, then you would've regardless

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

You're probably right, many foids don't approach even when they're obviously into the guy and just give "hints" instead. You could just be overinterpreting though.

Also you're post is contradictory. If they only show 'hints', how is it obvious theyre into the guy?

 

[itsallaboutpersonality]

i've said before there's no "if only i had said the right words", there's no such thing as that, if you had the ability to get the foid, then you would've regardless

Ya. When i chadfished i could be like 'dumb fkin bitch, i wanna cum on your face' and they were like 'yayyyy' lmao