You got defensive when you felt the need to explain why your black parents let you out of the house.
I made a comment about you being black, so your parents letting you out as a minor made sense, then you felt the need to explain to me about the job corps and all that, and my response to that was, "yeah, so black parents." Then you say it's obvious. Well, then don't tell me the story of your life about how they came to the decision to allow your premature emancipation. I just made a comment they were black. No need to tell me your life story as a response to that.